Thursday, August 11, 2011

Hey Hey It's my first Blog Post!

Well, hello there!
So, a little bit about me, I'm a mommy of two girl’s ages 8yr and 4yrs. I've been engaged to my love since December of 2010. We are getting married Nov 5, 2011.
I never thought I'd be this happy. I really really didn't.
It's been a long time coming that's for sure.
I am only 3 weeks shy of 29yrs old and have been married once and engaged once in between my first marriage and now.

I have dealt with moving away from home at 19yrs old, 8hrs away from my family and everything I knew, to get to be with my then husband on his Navy Base.
To then within 1 week of moving finding out we were pregnant.
By the time our daughter was 14months old I was all of a sudden a single mom with no income or place to go.
My whole life changed in a matter of a week once my then husband decided he wasn't happy anymore. It got a lot more complicated but that's in the past and we were young and dumb to be honest.
Now, 10yrs later, we are friends and he has remarried and his wife is a step mom to my kids. She and I have developed a friendship and I'm grateful everyday for how things turned out.

Now, skip to 2years after my first marriage went into the shitter and enter next soon to be ex....
I met this douche bag ( he will be referred to as DB) and he seemed great! I was happy, someone was telling me I was pretty and all seemed just swell....
Well, within 2months of knowing him I got pregnant. I decided it was going to be great and all things would work out this time. So, we moved in together after knowing each other 4months. (Yeah I know right?) We managed to live together for 2 years. Then, I found out he was hooking up with a chick he worked with (I know bad luck with ppl they work with) He denied it, I called him out. Took MY daughters and left.
That was that.

Well, skip now to 2 years after that mess, and we get to last May. When I met the most amazing man of my life. I couldn't have asked for a better partner. We have been inseparable since the day we met. I mean really, we haven't spent longer than 24hrs apart since the day we met. My ex-husband likes him, my daughters love him, my family loves him, and he just fits right in. I mean it's amazing. Like he was supposed to be there all along.
We just moved into a nice big duplex with our girls and it's been wonderful.
I'm planning for the wedding like a crazy person but I love it. I got a new and better job a year ago so that has helped tremendously.
I guess after all that rambling you are caught up on my history ( or as much as I'm gonna tell you hehe) and we can carry on with daily posts about whatever the hell it is I'm thinking about that day!!!
Hope you enjoy and if anyone is actually reading this please feel free to comment!!


  1. Yay! I hated DB! I knew the first day I met him, something was off. I'm glad that you are happy now! YOu deserve it!

  2. Aww, thanks!! I'm glad you are happy too! It's crazy that the ppl we were with when you and I met are not at all the ppl we are going to marry now!